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People Who Moved From A Major US City To A Small Midwestern Town Are Opening Up About What Gave Them Culture Shock

There are various parts of small-town life in the Midwest that really stood out to city transplants...

Devin Herenda • 2 months ago 2 months ago

Higher-Earning Partners Are Sharing How Their Income Impacts Their Relationships, And This Is Super Interesting

"I do harbor some resentment. He makes less because he works his dream job and I gave up mine to work a corporate job."

Devin Herenda • 3 months ago 3 months ago

29 Valuable Relationship Lessons Older Adults Wish They Would've Known About Earlier In Their Love Lives

"Expressing one's feelings may not lead to the outcome you want, but it's better to speak about things now than to hold it in and have it explode 10 times worse."

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

If You Earn Significantly More Money Than Your Partner, Tell Us How You Think About Money And Its Impact On Your Relationship

Does it impact how you split bills or balance your lifestyle?

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

22 People In Age-Gap Relationships Are Sharing The Differences Between Themselves And Their Significant Other, And It's Honestly Fascinating

"Sometimes, I feel like his opinions are 'outdated,' but it's because he grew up in a different time than me, so I have learned to be more understanding of where he is coming from because things changed A LOT between his childhood/teen years and mine."

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

"It's A Total Red Flag": People Are Sharing The First Date "Warning Signs" That Immediately Indicate You Should Head For The Hills

"To me, it reads: 'I don't think the things you say are important enough to remember.'"

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

To All The Older Adults Out There, What Relationship Lessons Do You Know Now That Would've Saved Your Younger Self A Lot Of Heartache?

We want to hear all about the relationship knowledge that could've helped your younger self.

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

People Are Revealing The Creative Ways They Save Money By Sharing Things, And I'm Taking Notes

These tips on sharing could save you a lot of dough.

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

Share The First Date "Red Flags" That Indicate Your Potential Partner Is Definitely Not The One

First dates are tough, but red flags make things 100 percent worse.

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

People In Relationships With Large Age Gaps, Tell Us About The Biggest Difference You Experience With Your Partner

Share how your and your partner's differences show up in the age-gap relationship.

Devin Herenda • 4 months ago 4 months ago

People Are Sharing Their Partner's "Beige Flag" That They've Learned To Live With, Even Though It's A Little Quirky

Love conquers all of these beige flags.

Devin Herenda • 5 months ago 5 months ago

I Legit Want To Know About The Unorthodox/Creative Ways You Learned To Save Money By Sharing Things

I wanna hear how sharing has helped you cover costs.

Devin Herenda • 5 months ago 5 months ago

People Are Sharing What Forced Them To Cut Ties With A Former Best Friend Of Theirs, And It's Truly Toxic

"She literally got so jealous and told me I had to choose between her and her sister. I told her that this was childish, but she wouldn't hear it. I haven't talked to her for a couple years, and there's so much less drama in my life now."

Devin Herenda • 5 months ago 5 months ago

What's Your Significant Other's "Beige Flag" That You Accept Even Though It's Kinda Strange?

Share the beige flag you've gotten used to in your relationship.

Devin Herenda • 5 months ago 5 months ago

33 Moments That Made People Realize Their Youth Was Behind Them

"When I started online dating after my divorce. I was 43. All the men in my age group looked like my dad, or his friends. Even those in their late 30s looked older. Then it hit me."

Devin Herenda • 5 months ago 5 months ago