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A Married Man Leading A "Double Life" Allegedly Killed His Girlfriend And Pretended To Be Her On Facebook

John Chapman allegedly confessed to killing Jaime Feden after taking her to Las Vegas under the guise of a vacation.

Last updated on November 20, 2019, at 4:19 p.m. ET

Posted on November 16, 2019, at 4:28 p.m. ET

Jaime Feden / Via Facebook

A Pennsylvania man who allegedly kidnapped his girlfriend and pretended to be her while communicating with her family and friends has been arrested, police said Friday.

John Matthew Chapman, 39, was charged with kidnapping, obstructing administration of law, and criminal use of a communication facility in connection with the disappearance of his girlfriend, Jaime Rae Feden, according to a police statement.

Chapman allegedly confessed to driving 33-year-old Feden from Bethel Park, a suburb of Pittsburgh, to Las Vegas for a trip he told her was a vacation with the "potential of acquiring residence” there, according to a criminal complaint seen by BuzzFeed News. Chapman then allegedly convinced Feden to drive to the desert "under the pretext of participating" in a BDSM-themed photoshoot, the criminal complaint stated.

Police said that Chapman confessed to later zip-tying Feden's hands and feet to a signpost in the desert before suffocating her by duct taping her nose and mouth.

Bethel Park Police Chief Timothy O'Connor told BuzzFeed News that during his interview with police, Chapman said he killed Feden in Nevada.

Feden was reported missing Thursday by her family, who told police they had not seen her since Sept. 15. During a welfare check of Feden's home that day, crime scene investigators recovered her phone and a backpack with plastic zip ties and duct tape inside, according to the criminal complaint.

Police have not found Feden's body, but said Nevada officials have found remains of a woman that match her description.

Calls and emails to the Allegheny County District Justice office and the Bethel Park Magisterial District Judge’s office were not immediately returned Saturday.

Chapman's Facebook lists his occupation as an installation technician at ADT, as well as previous employment with the US Navy. His bio reads, "I’m a 39 year old single guy from Pennsylvania. I’ve lived here most of my life. I'm always trying to meet new and interesting people."

Late Friday, however, local outlet WPXI reported that Chapman wasn't single, and had in fact been married for about a year. His wife, Maureen Chapman, found out about her husband's "double life" and Feden's alleged killing in a call from police Friday morning.

Maureen Chapman claimed her husband also called her Friday morning and confessed to killing Feden, saying, "I killed her because I had to."

"He said he had murdered a woman," Maureen Chapman told WPXI. "I was in disbelief."

Maureen Chapman also told WPXI that she had believed her husband had taken her truck to Las Vegas for a work trip. (O'Connor, the Bethel Park police chief, said she lived in Maryland.)

"Oh, my god, it's sick. It's really sick," she said. "I just want the truth as to what happened. I feel I'm owed that."

On Chapman's Facebook, however, Maureen Chapman is listed as his sister, and a comment from him on her Facebook profile photo also reads "lookin good sis."

Feden likely had no idea Chapman was married, her longtime friend Nikki Lawrence told BuzzFeed News. Feden and Chapman met around 2009 and had dated off and on since then, said Lawrence, who believes the pair met at a school for people with disabilities.

Feden had VATER syndrome, a series of birth defects that resulted in her small stature, but Lawrence said Feden didn't let it limit her.

"She didn’t let it affect her at all," said Lawrence, adding that Feden worked full time at a care home until recently. "She wanted to go to college, she wanted to be a medical assistant like me."

Nikki Lawrence / Via Facebook

Lawrence said she knew Chapman and Feden argued, and that Feden's family and many of her friends disapproved of the relationship, but "she loved [Chapman] no matter what."

"She was so strong-willed, she made up her own decisions," Lawrence said.

Still, Lawrence said Chapman was "very mean" to Feden and had on several occasions used her for money. Lawrence also recalled an incident about three years prior in which Feden showed up to a bar with Chapman and had two black eyes.

"The owner of the bar chased him down the street," Lawrence said. "After that he didn’t really come around any of her friends and family."

Lawrence last saw Feden on Sept. 5, and, realizing she hadn't heard from her friend in a while, texted her to check in. She said she received responses from Feden's number saying Chapman had planned a trip for them — but she now believes the responses were coming from Chapman himself.

"It makes me physically sick," Lawrence said, adding that she believes Chapman was posting photos and check-ins to Feden's Facebook account weeks after she was last seen by family and friends.

Lawrence also said she believes Chapman pretended to be Feden while communicating with her family, using Feden's Facebook account to message with them. According to Lawrence, Feden's family said they were receiving wrong answers to questions Feden would have known.

While texting with whom she thought at the time was Feden, Lawrence said she asked for Chapman's birthday because she wanted to use his birth date to search for any prior criminal history. She'd grown especially suspicious of Chapman, she said, after he friended her on Facebook on Sept. 29 and proceeded to comment on her photos and post flowers on her wall.

Facebook

On Thursday, the day Feden's family reported her missing, a post from her Facebook account said that she hated her family and claimed "they called the cops because I won't jump to their wishes."

Bethel Park Police said in a Facebook post Friday that the search for Feden continues. However, the criminal complaint shows that Clark County, Nevada, officials recovered a woman's body matching Feden's description on Oct. 5, but have not identified the remains.

The Clark County Coroner's Office declined to comment when reached by BuzzFeed News Saturday.

According to an unidentified person listing on NaMus, the National Missing and Unidentified Persons System, a body found in Las Vegas on Oct. 5 matching Feden's physical description also bore a tattoo reading "Keith, Robin, Jason," as well as a four-leaf clover on the right lower leg.

Lawrence told BuzzFeed News that Feden had the same tattoo, which was in honor of her uncle, brother, and mother, who died when she was young.

"She was such a sweetheart, she didn’t do anything wrong to anybody to deserve anything like this," Lawrence said of Feden. "She loved him and she just wanted him to love her."

UPDATE

This post has been updated with information from the police criminal complaint.

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