More than 30,000 people shared their thoughts.
The point isn’t to defend or denounce these men, but to understand them.
I went looking for other men who consider mutual masturbation an important sexual experience in its own right.
"Hasids are outsiders in New York, and so are sex workers. So, I think they maybe see us in a weird way as outlaws, like them."
Some asexual people say they've been pressured into sex, or assaulted or raped by people trying to "correct" their identities — and afterward, they still aren't believed.
I’ve learned that the key to good sex isn’t finding The One — it’s being honest about what I want, and what I don’t.
In the years I worked at a sex shop, I saw how the pressure to have great sex — in a world that will never be a level playing field — can inflict its own kind of damage.
I thought I was ashamed of my body because the straight world told me to be. But it wasn't that simple.
“You can’t pirate someone saying your name.”
Being hard of hearing means that I miss some things in bed. But sometimes our supposed limitations can give us our most creative advantages.
These magazine covers — simultaneously smart and dumb, progressive and retrograde — are a Rosetta stone for understanding sex and womanhood in the Me Decade.
Because I'm polyamorous, my decision to get on birth control had to go through an unusual chain of command.