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People Are Inspired By This Woman's "Petty" Advice If You Find Nudes On Your Partner's Phone

"Shady things have happened to me hence why I'm petty!"

Posted on May 10, 2017, at 3:12 p.m. ET

This is 19-year-old Rebaneilwe from South Africa. She's currently in a committed relationship, but she's been through her fair share of bullshit in the past.


On Tuesday, she came across a tweet from user @bonnntle asking women: "What would you do if you found another girl's nudes on your man's phone?"

Ladies , what would you do if you found another girls nudes on your mans phone?

Rebaneilwe told BuzzFeed News it's a predicament she's been in before, so the question really struck a personal nerve with her. "I was more sad, cried-myself-to-sleep kind of thing," she said, recalling a previous relationship. But she said she would react much "differently" today if she uncovered traces of infidelity again.


"[I'm] never letting it happen again!" she added.

So Rebaneilwe decided to respond to the question with her most creative advice. "Send them to myself. When he asks for my nudes, I'll send hers again," she wrote back.

Send them to myself. When he asks for my nudes, I'll send hers again.

(Of course she wouldn't advocate sending photos to anyone the original subject didn't already send it to.)


It was a unique kind of practical savagery no one was prepared for, but inspired so many. "New petty level unlocked," someone said.

@_RebaS @Sleeky_Prince_ New petty level unlocked.

I aspire to be that petty

😂😂😂😂😂😂 no but this is bloody brilliant 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

And it shooketh many mans.

You!! 😲😔🤕 I'm so frightened by this tweet.

@_RebaS @cy_mureithi Yoh yoh yoh , yeses !

Some people pointed out that the significant other may never ask you for nudes, or take a while to ask. But someone else quickly chimed in to suggest just "send[ing] him surprise nudes."

@Jostifiedd @_RebaS send him surprise nudes

Even though a handful of people either jokingly or sincerely believe this might be taking things too far, Rebaneilwe knows that she at least will not be "crying" or "trying to fix things" with a cheater. "Shady things have happened to me hence why I'm petty!" she hilariously and proudly declared.

But Rebaneilwe does sincerely advise any women (or man), "If your partner is unfaithful, leave — The trust is broken. Let go, as hard as it may be."


A BuzzFeed News investigation, in partnership with the International Consortium of Investigative Journalists, based on thousands of documents the government didn't want you to see.