Want to read more? Here are some other essays BuzzFeed published this week.
Erik Raschke wrote about his dream home in the Netherlands — and how Vladimir Putin is destroying it. Susan Cheng (hi!) looked back on a childhood spent inside her family's Chinese restaurant. Daniel Nester defended "vaguebooking" as a way for us to stay sane in the digital world. Anne Helen Petersen critiqued Entourage and the film's toxic use of homophobia as comedy. Priya Krishna and Kate Taylor ranked 50 Disney Channel Original Movies according to how feminist they are. For BuzzFeed LGBT, John Sherman wrote about the lube problem depicted during gay male sex scenes. And finally, Meredith Talusan explained why trans women care about Caitlyn Jenner's pronouns.