Rose McGowan Calls On Asia Argento To “Be Better” Than Harvey Weinstein
“Do the right thing. Be honest. Be fair. Let justice stay its course. Be the person you wish Harvey could have been.”
Rose McGowan on Monday implored embattled #MeToo vanguard Asia Argento to “do the right thing” as she faces allegations that she sexually assaulted actor Jimmy Bennett when he was 17.
“Anyone can be better — I hope you can be, too. Do the right thing. Be honest. Be fair. Let justice stay its course,” McGowan said in her statement. “Be the person you wish Harvey [Weinstein] could have been.”
Argento was one of the first actors to publicly accuse movie mogul Harvey Weinstein of sexual assault alongside McGowan. They became close in the months after the Weinstein stories were published in October and have been two of the most visible #MeToo activists.
But on Aug. 19, the New York Times reported that Argento had settled a lawsuit last year with Bennett, who alleged she assaulted him in a California hotel room in 2013 when he was 17 and she was 37, for $380,000.
Argento did not speak to the New York Times before its story, but in a statement two days later said she never had sex with Bennett. Instead, she accused Bennett of making an “exorbitant request of money” because he was having money troubles. It was her late boyfriend, Anthony Bourdain, who personally handled the payout, because he was “afraid of the possible negative publicity that such a person, whom he considered dangerous, could have brought upon us,” she added.
Since the story broke, Argento has been dealing with the fallout.
Soon after the New York Times story, McGowan tweeted that her “heart is broken,” but on Monday, she put more distance between her and Argento, referring to their friendship in the past tense.
McGowan also disavowed Argento’s alleged actions and said the suspicious text exchange that was leaked to TMZ last week was a conversation between Argento and McGowan’s current significant other, model Rain Dove.
Dove gave McGowan a heads-up before turning over the text exchange to Los Angeles police, she said, knowing the #MeToo leader would have to answer questions about the scandal.
According to McGowan, Dove and Argento met as she was grieving the death of Bourdain. McGowan said while they were in Berlin, Argento revealed to the couple that she was “being extorted for a large sum of money every month by someone who was blackmailing them with a provocative image.”
McGowan says that around two days before the text messages were published, Dove called her saying that Argento had admitted to criminal behavior regarding her relationship to Bennett.
“Asia had stated that she’d been receiving unsolicited nudes of Jimmy since he had been 12. Asia mentioned in these texts that she didn’t take any action on those images. No reporting to authorities, to the parents, or blocking of Jimmy’s social media. Not even a simple message ‘Don’t send me these images. They are inappropriate,’” McGowan alleged.
She also hinted that there were more details to the story but she couldn’t reveal them as not to interfere with the investigation. Los Angeles authorities have not confirmed that an investigation is taking place, saying only that they were attempting to reach out to the parties involved.
Throughout her statement, McGowan talked of the important bond she built with Argento in the wake of the #MeToo movement, but said she has learned “as allies to the victim and voyeurs of an event we should find a better way to balance support of the victim with due process for the accused.”
McGowan’s full statement is below:
I would first of all like to start off this statement saying thank you for your patience. A lot of people have been demanding answers and a response to the recent events surrounding Asia Argento’s sexual assault case. Many people believe that because we have been close in each other’s lives over the past year that perhaps I am affiliated with this incident or being complicit. I am not.
I first met Asia on a red carpet, but it’s only been the past year through our shared experience of the [Harvey Weinstein] case that we have bonded. Asia was a person who understood my trauma in a way that many others didn’t. We were able to talk through them together and champion each other’s voices. We even got matching dot tattoos! Something I had posted on my [Instagram] just about a month ago. It’s no secret to anyone that I'm a blunt, candid, brazen individual vocally- and I think that’s what I really related to Asia the most with. They were edgy, confrontational, and strong willed with very little care about how much others liked or disliked them. Rare things to find in women in this industry or the world.
But then everything changed. In an instant. I received a phone call and series of messages from the being I’ve been dating- Rain Dove. They said that they had been texting with Asia and that Asia had revealed that she had indeed slept with Jimmy Bennett. Rain also shared that Asia had stated that she’d been receiving unsolicited nudes of Jimmy since he had been 12. Asia mentioned in these texts that she didn’t take any action on those images. No reporting to authorities, to the parents, or blocking of Jimmy’s social media. Not even a simple message “Don’t send me these images. They are inappropriate.” There were a few other details revealed as well that I am not at liberty to mention in this statement as investigators do their job.
Rain Dove said that they were going to go to the police with these texts once we were done speaking no matter what. But that they wanted me to be aware of them so that I may be able to take further actions. I responded with “You have to. You must.” I wasted no time. It wasn’t hard to say or support. What was hard was the shell shock of the realisation that everything the MeToo movement stood for was about to be in jeopardy. An hour after our conversation was finished Rain Dove confirmed that they had turned over the texts and were in conversation with officers. Almost 48 hours later the texts were in the press.
I had introduced Rain Dove to Asia Argento last month, three days after the passing of Anthony Bourdain. I was with Asia to comfort and support her. Rain Dove came to support us both. It was an emotionally chaotic time and Rain Dove suggested we go to Berlin for a couple days to take the mourning out of Asia’s home and into a neutral space. So we did. While in Berlin Asia had mentioned that she was being extorted for a large sum of money every month by someone who was blackmailing them with a provocative image. No one in the room knew who the extortionist was. Now we know it to be a reference to this case.
Rain Dove continued on communicating with Asia occasionally after meeting her- and their conversations have been their own. I know Rain is a person to whom many high profile entities consult when they are experiencing social pressures because Rain is good at guiding them through the research confrontation, rehabilitation, and solution process. While they are a person who is good at keeping a secret for those dedicated to making things right- they are also justice driven. So it was not a surprise to me that I received that call and the messages from them. I’ve referred to Asia in the past as “My Ride or Die” and said very clearly that their friendship comes first. I know that coming to me with those messages must have been hard for Rain because of that so I commend them for their bravery.
To the people who have checked in with me to see if I’m alright- the answer is thank you and Yes. I’ll be fine. Its sad to lose a friend connection, but what's even more sad is what happened to Jimmy Bennett. Whether or not the extortion case is true- it wasn’t fair and it wasn’t right. It is the type of thing I fight against alongside so many. The reason I haven’t released a statement is because I’ve frankly been extremely humbled by this event. I had to take a step back and realize that in my own activism while I fight hard with passion- I need to evolve. In the past I have been occasionally angry. As a victim I was justified in fiery feelings. But I know that those accused are the friends, parents, and family members of other people. There absolutely should be no leeway or tolerance for sexual assault. Hard stop. NONE. Victims also shouldn’t be told how they should react or what they should say about their abusers. However as allies to the victim and voyeurs of an event we should find a better way to balance support of the victim with due process for the accused. I’ve never claimed to be perfect. This week especially has made me come to terms with the fact that we all have a lot of growing to do, including myself.
At this current moment it may be easy to focus on the drama of the situation. The conspiracy. But the real focus should be on supporting justice. Supporting honesty. And supporting each other. We can not let this moment break the momentum of a movement that has freed so many people. We must use it to allow us to become stronger. More compassionate. More aware. And More organised.
Asia you were my friend. I loved you. You’ve spent and risked a lot to stand with the MeToo movement. I really hope you find your way through this process to rehabilitation and betterment. Anyone can be be better- I hope you can be, too. Do the right thing. Be honest. Be fair. Let justice stay its course. Be the person you wish Harvey could have been.