Matthew Perry Issued An Apology After Facing Intense Backlash For Appearing To Question Why Keanu Reeves Is Still Alive

In newly published excerpts from his upcoming memoir, Perry mourned the loss of “original thinkers” like Heath Ledger and River Phoenix by questioning why Keanu Reeves “still walks among us.”

Matthew Perry has issued an apology after causing intense backlash online over his comments about Keanu Reeves.

Earlier this week, several excerpts from Perry’s forthcoming memoir — Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing — were released online. Outlets like Variety and the New York Post published sections where the Friends star appears to take aim at fellow actor Keanu Reeves.

In one excerpt, Perry reflects on the death of his former costar River Phoenix — who died in 1993 from a drug overdose — by asking why “talented,” “original thinkers” like Phoenix and Heath Ledger are no longer alive, but Reeves is.

“River was a beautiful man, inside and out — too beautiful for this world, it turned out. It always seems to be the really talented guys who go down,” Perry writes.

“Why is it that the original thinkers like River Phoenix and Heath Ledger die, but Keanu Reeves still walks among us? River was a better actor than me; I was funnier. But I certainly held my own in our scenes — no small feat, when I look back decades later,” he says.

If that line wasn’t strange enough, the 53-year-old goes on to reference the same sentiment later in the book — this time, mourning the death of comedian Chris Farley.

“His disease had progressed faster than mine had. (Plus, I had a healthy fear of the word ‘heroin,’ a fear we did not share.) I punched a hole through Jennifer Aniston’s dressing room wall when I found out. Keanu Reeves walks among us,” he writes again.

Perry’s intention behind the dig remains unclear; however, his comments sparked major backlash online, with hundreds of Twitter users coming to Reeves’s defense.

“matthew perry been on a hell of a media blitz lately to promote his book, and buddy he just shot down all momentum & goodwill by attacking keanu reeves: you don’t attack keanu,” one critic wrote. “nasty work, matthew.”

matthew perry been on a hell of a media blitz lately to promote his book, and buddy he just shot down all momentum & goodwill by attacking keanu reeves: you don’t attack keanu. nasty work, matthew.

Twitter: @MikeTaddow

“this is such a fucked up thing to say,” added someone else, who highlighted that Perry’s words were particularly insensitive given that Reeves and Phoenix were close friends.

this is such a fucked up thing to say, especially when keanu reeves was devastated over river’s death. also proof that keanu reeves is 200x the man matthew perry will ever be.

Twitter: @mikeyparksacar

Several others noted that it seemed as if Perry had chosen Reeves’s name as an “easy punchline.”

Honestly Matthew Perry’s Keanu Reeves digs are, appropriately given it’s Matthew Perry, pure nineties throwbacks to the days when Reeves was an easy punchline (see the Critic’s Keanu Reeves in Hamlet bit) and not the beloved dad of movies he has become

Twitter: @VK_HM

Matthew Perry taking several swings at Keanu Reeves in his memoir is so funny. He doesn't know everyone loves him! He thinks Reeves is just some punchline! Something almost touching about missing the memo so completely. A man with no country

Twitter: @rajandelman

Among the backlash, a number of public figures including Lynda Carter and Rachel Zegler showed their love for Reeves too, with the latter saying she’s “personally thrilled that keanu reeves walks among us.”

personally thrilled that keanu reeves walks among us

Twitter: @rachelzegler

And as the criticism continued to build online, Perry issued an apology, admitting that he made a “mistake.”

“I'm actually a big fan of Keanu,” the actor told People in a statement on Wednesday. “I just chose a random name, my mistake. I apologize.”

He went on to say: “I should have used my own name instead.”

Aside from his comments about other actors, Perry’s memoir has been garnering plenty of attention for its candid revelations about his own decadeslong struggles with addiction.

Reflecting on his use of drugs and alcohol, Perry reveals that his addiction led to an array of medical complications, including a two-week period on life support, an exploded colon, and a total of 14 surgeries on his stomach.

In one excerpt obtained by the New York Times, Perry recalls being driven to a treatment facility after filming a beloved 2001 episode of Friends, in which his character, Chandler Bing, gets married.

“I married Monica and got driven back to the treatment center — at the height of my highest point in Friends, the highest point in my career, the iconic moment on the iconic show — in a pickup truck helmed by a sober technician,” Perry writes.

According to Perry, his famous Friends costars had confronted him about his drinking, with Jennifer Aniston telling him, “in a kind of weird but loving way,” that she and the rest of the cast could tell he was struggling.

In a recent interview with People, Perry described himself as “a pretty healthy guy” who’s “grateful to be alive.”

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