Actor Kit Connor Came Out As Bisexual After Being Accused Of Queerbaiting

Fans raced to the actor's defense on Monday, welcoming him to the LGBTQ community while admonishing those who had pressured him.

Kit Connor, one of the young British stars of Netflix's Heartstopper, came out as bisexual on Monday after he was accused of queerbaiting fans of the LGBTQ show.

The 18-year-old, who starred as rugby player Nick Nelson in the gay coming-of-age drama, made the announcement in his first post on Twitter in seven weeks.

"Back for a minute," Connor wrote. "i’m bi. congrats for forcing an 18 year old to out himself. i think some of you missed the point of the show. bye."

The teen's last tweet prior to that was on Sept. 12, calling Twitter a "silly silly app" that he would be deleting because he was bored.

That followed accusations of queerbaiting from some online after pictures emerged of Connor holding hands with Maia Reficco, his costar in the upcoming A Cuban Girl’s Guide to Tea and Tomorrow.

In May, he also tweeted his amusement that people were speculating about his sexuality.

twitter is so funny man. apparently some people on here know my sexuality better than I do…

Twitter: @kit_connor

Two months later at London's Pride parade, Connor and his Heartstopper castmates wore rainbow apparel as they danced in front of anti-LGBTQ protesters.

Connor had previously spoken about the pressure he and costar Joe Locke had been under to publicly discuss their sexuality. Instead, Connor said he preferred not to use any labels.

"We’re still all so young. To start sort of speculating about our sexualities and maybe pressuring us to come out when maybe we’re not ready," Connor told the Reign With Josh Smith podcast in May. "For me, I just feel perfectly confident and comfortable with my sexuality. But I don’t feel the need to really, you know — I’m not too big on labels and things like that. I’m not massive about that. I don’t feel like I need to label myself, especially not publicly.”

“It feels a bit strange to make assumptions about a person’s sexuality just based on hearing their voice or seeing their appearance,” Connor added at the time. “I feel like that’s a very interesting, slightly problematic sort of assumption to make.”

In Heartstopper, Connor plays Nick opposite Locke's character of Charlie as the two high school boys begin a friendship that turns romantic.

Fans of Connor's raced to his defense on Monday, welcoming him to the LGBTQ community while admonishing those who had pressured him.

it makes me feel sick to my stomach that people we’re accusing kit of queerbaiting so much to the point where they pushed him out of the closet. idk why people don’t realize that many celebrities aren’t queerbaiting, they’re just being themselves and don’t owe us a label.

Twitter: @hairyween

i hope every single one of you who accused kit of queerbaiting is embarrassed and ASHAMED. coming out should be a happy moment that ppl do when they’re ready. you’ve taken that away from him. you missed the entire point of heartstopper and nick nelson’s character. congratulations

Twitter: @heartsmxgic

Among those lending support was Alice Oseman, who wrote the graphic novel on which the Netflix series was based.

@kit_connor I truly don't understand how people can watch Heartstopper and then gleefully spend their time speculating about sexualities and judging based on stereotypes. I hope all those people are embarrassed as FUCK. Kit you are amazing 💖

Twitter: @AliceOseman
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