Ethical nonmonogamy is becoming more and more common. Yet there’s still some stigma attached to nonmonogamous relationships, and part of the reason is the heteronormative idea that they’re designed to benefit straight cis men. Yet, as Jessica Fern, psychotherapist and author of Polysecure, has pointed out, it’s often women who initiate nonmonogamy.
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